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Would you rather grow old with someone you "settled" for, or be alone when you are older because you didn't find true love?

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I'd rather be alone. I'd be a crazy cat lady

I don't "settle" and am lucky enough to be with the right one already.

I have found my true love and I am so grateful and will always be grateful. If we part for some reason beyond my control or wishes I would rather grow old without a partner but I'd still have family around me and I'd try to live a happy life.
I feel like such an incredibly lucky guy to have you! Wow! I'm so happy this question doesn't apply but I agree I'd rather be alone. Love you babe
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Mar 01, 2014

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Be alone when I am older because I didn't find true love

Don't know. I'm glad I found someone to get old with that IS my true love and puzzle piece.
I would never have settled. Life is at once too short and too long to spend it with someone you've settled for. I am with my soulmate. There is nothing that comes close to that.
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Mar 28, 2014

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I'd rather be alone. There's no point in settling for someone you don't love. That's no way to live out the rest of your life.

Be alone.

I'd rather be alone than not be with her

Grow old alone

Rather be alone than settling for somebody. I would be happier alone.

Alone... I'd never settle...

Be alone. Because you should never settle,; it makes you feel trapped and brings about depression. Not to mention that your partner will feel your unbridled resentment.

I'm in a relationship now and feel alone so what does it matter

I rather grow old alone because if not finding true love because when you settle it half tge time somebody you really dont want to be with

I want to be old with some one that love and cherish. Growing old alone is a death sentence.

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