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Sometimes, mostly home
2-3 times a week. Never when I'm in the same city as my girl
We masterbate in front of each other all the time. Sometimes as part of foreplay or sometimes just by itself. We masterbate because it's healthy and totally sexy. We have an amazing sex life that is incredibly satisfying. Masterbation doesn't have to be a secret. Letting each other know that we want or need to masterbate doesn't minimize our feelings for each other. I would say that we are both very open and secure in our marriage and do not take self pleasuring personally. It's natural.
I also love making love to you. The sex is the best ever.
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Feb 19, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Feb 19, 2012
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Ummmmmmm - don't need to - I have a smokin hot red head fiancé that rocks my world
Once every few months or so
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged | Jan 25, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Engaged | Jan 25, 2012
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Never no need our sex is amazing
well i only masturbate when im away for a long period of time like a week or longer but other than that im on her like peanut butter fluff on wheat (peanut butter marshmallow sammich)
I used to do it everday. Especially just before bed. But now maybe once a month when she is on her period and the pressure builds
Nearly daily and various places in the house.
Oh maybe 2-5 times a week. Used to do it daily. Usually in the bedroom, study, or occasionally in the living room.
Have you ever been caught by your partner?
Female, 26-30 years, Engaged, Gay, WA, US | Jan 16, 2012
Female, 26-30 years, Engaged, Gay, WA, US | Jan 16, 2012
Not that I remember but its not a secret.
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 16, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 16, 2012
Have you?
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 16, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, CA, US | Jan 16, 2012
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Never. It's my husbands Job to make me feel like that. Why do it yourself wen yu can watch your husband do t
Not often but in the shower if I do
I don't need to
Every time we have sex
Not all that often. A couple times a month.
Fiancé!