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Do you believe in "the one," or the "right one at the right time"? Why?
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Yes. No doubt Lindsay was the right one at the right time. However, I also believe we can screw up a good thing once complacency sets in.
I believe in my future wife, none of those could be's, might be's or which one I believe in apply to me anymore.
Hahah you know my answer to this... My practical side would say right person at the right time. But at the same time if it is the right person or the one then regardless of the circumstances surrounding it... It's the one.
So which one would you pick?
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
The one :)
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2013
That better be me
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
It better be!
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 17, 2013
Glad to see the confiexen
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
I mean confidence
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, NY, US | Feb 17, 2013
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the right one at the right moment. cause he came to my life at the right moment.he was not the guy im looking for but he never fails me to feel that im the right girl for him.
The right one at the time. It would be amazing to spend my life with just one person, but I know people can grow and change and not be right for each other. It happens. I just won't let it happen without a fight! :)
The time could be ten years or 50 years. But if for some reason we tried and ten years down the road we just hate each other and are miserable, I would want us to find people that make us happy. I'm not predicting our relationship will fail, but I acknowledge if it were that I wouldn't want to be miserable.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 01, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Feb 01, 2013
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I believe people grow
Yes. There is that special person who is made just for you. Of course there may be others who drive you to be that right person for them. But I do honestly believe in the one.
I believe in "the one" since I feel I've really found the right person. I also believe in "right people at the wrong time" having met some wonderful people but at difficult times in life--not being ready for it, having an unsettled life/unknown plans; having said that, most of those times I always felt something was missing, and now have a fully filled heart.
Of course! He's my "one". There is definitely also such a thing as a "right time" too. We've talked about this before but the way we met was at our first day of Range- we were paired up together- and we both were really close to not going that day and if we hadn't gone, we wouldn't have met under those circumstances and he probably would just be another boy with nice eyes to me.
The One... Hmm. I have him saved in my phone as 'The One' and it's because I do believe in it and I do believe that he is, in fact, the one. The right time thing throws me off because it sounds like settling for something. I think The One comes at the perfect time only because you both know exactly what you want, and can make it happen.
The one....because he's the only guy I can even think if being with now. I can't imagine ever having to live with out him and honestly....no other guys even come close to how amazing he is ;*<3
The one. He's the right one, our timing isn't always the best.
My husband is the RIGHT and ONLY ONE for me for the rest of my life!!
hmm... the right one at the right time i think. because i don't believe in soul mates, or destined to be, and people do change, situations may change, and unfortunately love could fade.
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