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If your friend was being cheated on, would you tell them?
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Its all in how you tell them. Everything must be communicated, but "tell"ing them is not a good way. This like a lot of things must be learned/realized on their own. So you have to setup an environment where they can learn from it. Basicly you have to set it up so that they figure it out on their own, you never know they may already know and be ok with it.
i would make sure first though, but yes
YES!!! And I would expect them to do the same. Even if I endured some backlash over saying something, they need to know. otherwise you are just as bad as the cheating spouse for keeping your mouth shut..
it depends on how good of friends we are.
I like to think that I would, but I know sometimes I can be a little cowardly when it comes to confrontation so I can't guarantee I would do it in practice.
yes
I dont know
most likely yes.
Of course I would because no one deserves to be treated that way they have a right to know what's going on
Yes - and I wouldn't give the partner a chance to "come clean" first, because in my experience that just gives them time to make up a story that makes them look innocent. I think it's selfish to *not* do it because you're afraid of backlash... A cheating partner can give your friend a disease or deceive them for years. What's more important to you: your own comfort or your friend's health and safety?
Yes. If it's one of my VERY close friends. I
Yes, I would want to know.
If I knew for sure, absolutely.
of course
NO, mind your own business.. experts tell you if you say anything you become the target of their ire
