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Their smile... Teeth...

I will smell them, look at their finger, teeth, face then shoes

Eyes and teeth

Depends on the person

Eyes

Smile and if their pants are over their hips.

Hmm. Probably their mouth lol

Whether they seem to take a genuine interest in me,or whether they are self-absorbed.

How friendly and comfortable they are talking to me

Their smile and the way they talk.

Their smile and how genuine they seem.

personality "how annoying are you? are you the kind of person that touches their hair a lot but nothing really changes?" my bf had crazy wild hair when i first met him *approved* lol

If they are damn cute or cute but has to be in the cute category

Personality, looks fade

Smile
