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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?


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Female, 41-50 years, Dating, ID, US • • Comment
Both. But having it initiated is awesome. Takes the stress if thinking out of the equation.
Male, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, Gay, UT, US | Aug 13, 2014

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I like it to be initiated. I like the idea that he wants me that way.
Female, >50 years, Married • • Comment

I like it both ways
Male, 31-35 years, Dating • • Comment

I like initiating but I don't always have the best timing so now I tend to wait.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US • • Comment
I like to get it started
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US | Dec 09, 2014

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I LIKE BOTHHHHHHH
Female, 41-50 years, Dating • • Comment

Both.
Male, >50 years, Married, ID, US • • Comment

I like both. Sometimes I have a very clear path or how I want to use that hot body....then I like to initiate.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating • • Comment

I'll take it any way I can get it! 😜 But I do prefer to have it initiated- it's really sexy to know I am wanted.
Female, 26-30 years, Domestically Partnered • • Comment

Both. I like initiating sometimes and other times I like it when she takes control ;)
Male, 26-30 years, Dating • • Comment

A bit of both! I like to be taken by surprise but also give the surprise
Male, 31-35 years, Dating • • Comment
hehehe i agree with you my love.
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Sep 12, 2014

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Have it initiated
Female, 26-30 years, Married • • Comment

Both
Female, 31-35 years, Dating • • Comment

Both, I'm terrible at knowing when to initiate though :/
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, SA, AU • • Comment

Both for sure!!
Female, <20 years, Engaged, Bi • • Comment

Doesn't matter it isn't happening anyways
Male, 36-40 years, Dating • • Comment
Only cus we are NEVER alon
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 18, 2014

Not the excuse anymore
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 04, 2015

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