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Is it healthy to keep secrets from your partner?

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Absolutely not

No, depending on what the secret is.

Secrets that hurt, no. Surprises, yes.



No, I dont


When there is trust, yes. We get to govern ourselves and share things as we want to. “Secrets” often feels like a bad word. It’s about privacy, not secrecy.

Of course not. That's a duh.


Not normally. Holiday gifts and sometimes forgetting to tell the other person is okay. However, actively keeping secrets goes against the greatest part about being married and that’s having a person who truly knows you and still accepts you. If you need to keep secrets to keep a relationship going it’s not healthy.




It depends on what it is.

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