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Icebreakers
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![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Hmm I think if I really want something I could just ask you
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I usually ask for it and we talk about it. If it's something sexual then I try to bring it up casually or I discreetly start doing little subtle things to get him in the mood and let him think it was his idea.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, Gay, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Yes. I ask her& we talk about it.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Do I? It depends on what.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
You always get what you want:* unless I'm teasing you.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 06, 2015
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 06, 2015
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![Female, 21-25 years, Dating, Gay, NY, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
A trick is to ask while you smile. She knows how to please.
![Female, 26-30 years, Engaged, Bi](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Yes. If it's sexual, I can either rub his arms and body.. Or just beg because he likes that. If it's anything else, I just pout and wont stop asking.
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, MD, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Lol yes. Just buy her some Coldstones😂😂😂
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
if you're on the road, please pull over until you're finished laughing
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Aug 13, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Aug 13, 2016
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![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I tell him what I like and want. I do not do any manipulation or push to get what I want. I only want it from him if he wants to give it to me. That makes me happier knowing it is something he wants, as well.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, MI, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Haha I ask?
For example
"Hey baaaaby *smiles* would you go down on me?"
For example
"Hey baaaaby *smiles* would you go down on me?"
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
si claro ya tenemos muchos años juntos
![Male, 36-40 years, Engaged](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
She dont refuse thing mostly she accept dirctly.
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Yes, I do know if it is not really extraordinary thing
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Sep 25, 2015
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Sep 25, 2015
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![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I don't think so, maybe. xD
![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Yes, asking. Talking about it.
![Male, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Yes. That´s the way
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 23, 2017
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 23, 2017
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![Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
No way! She only gives me what I don't want: A headache & abstinence.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
No I dnt think so lol