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Do you tend to see things as black and white, or as shades of gray?
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![Female, 26-30 years, Dating, ME, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
It depends on the situation
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
a mix
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think shades of grey. But then sometimes things are just black and white so I don't know
![Male, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Blanco y Negro
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Black & white. All things have a reason. All the have a purpose. All things are a choice. Control. Control. Control.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I really enjoy things that are black and white, but I feel like in starting to think most things in life are a shades of gray.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I think the majority of things I see in shades of grey. Seeing things in only black and white leaves little room for empathy.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 09, 2016
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jan 09, 2016
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![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, IL, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Black and white. Makes my life easier.
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
frecuently black and white... sometimes grays... it depends
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Most often in shades of grey..
![Male or Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
I tend to see things as black and white
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Shades of gray. Nothing is completely pure or evil. Everything is a mix between interests and helping society/others.
![Male, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Pretty much black and white
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Depends. A lot of things are grey but some are black and white
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 15, 2016
Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Mar 15, 2016
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![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Shades of gray. I start with white and black but I end seen things not that bad or not that good.
![Male, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Oh
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 23, 2017
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 23, 2017
![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
oh?
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Oh??
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Why oh?
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
![Male, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I believe there is not a center in the spectrum. Its eitehr one or the other
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
Male, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
![Female, 21-25 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
oki
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
Female, 21-25 years, Dating | Dec 29, 2017
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![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Black and white.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
50 shades of grey.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Feb 10, 2016
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Feb 10, 2016
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