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How do you feel about your partner having a best friend of the gender they are attracted to?
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I would not let her
As long as he is gay, I'm ok with it.
But this is a very tricky question. If the friend KNOWS that we are in a relationship, it is ok. *cough*
But this is a very tricky question. If the friend KNOWS that we are in a relationship, it is ok. *cough*
She should of married that nigga if it's like that
It depends, if they are not attracted to them that's fine. I think a brother/sister type relationship is fine.
It's not ok with me at all.
Not a fan!!
I trust my boyfriend and we have mutual girl and guy friends. I don't find it a problem to be friends with someone who's attractive. I feel more comfortable when I know that person and their intentions but his friends that are girls have never flirted with him and I'm not a hater on a pretty girl lol I just know he's not looking at the girl like he looks at me because he knows how much I love him and that shouldn't even cross his mind if I'm his girl.
Now when you're being sneaky and annoying like some people that abuse the privilege of being friends with the opposite sex, that's when it becomes a problem....aka Jessica mutters(gross!) just saying;)
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 30, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 30, 2012
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If a girl is his best friend, then a girl is his best friend. So be it. I trust him and I know he loves me :)
I don't like the idea and even if I tried I would probably be a brat about it. I wish I wasn't and hate to say it, but I'm very jealous
I trust him with everything I have in me and I know he would never cheat on me or do anything to hurt with his bestfriend! :)
I have no problem with her having male friends. She has shown me nothing but trust since the day I laid eyes on her. Ox
I would not like it.. Would weird me out.
It is acceptable to me because if my partner is a honest person, then I should not worry about her having a friend of the same gender
Andrew needs to answer this
I would probably get jealous, but trust that he isn't doing anything with her
I would probably get jealous, but trust that he isn't doing anything with her
I think it is very healthy and it should help the other spouse to see and understand from a different point of view!
