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How do you feel about your partner having a best friend of the gender they are attracted to?
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She does though.
I should be his best friend first
Would not bother me at all because he is with me and I with him. They are just his friend.
I would some what be a little mad. If I don't know the guys she's talking to then its hard to not be upset. I do trust her but don't trust guys talking to her. I am glad she has friends and I'm okay with it as long as I know them and can feel comfortable with her around them.
As long as this bestfriend knows they're boundaries. But once they shit on these boundaries they miss out in the chance.
I have a really good friend but she's very much like a mother to me. My gf has lots of friends and I can see her having a bf outside of our relationship.. I don't mind but I hope that my gf and I remain bfs too
Wouldn't bother me because trust is very important in a relationship
Trust and history..I know your past and what you have been through why would I want you to ever feel like that is even a remote possibility again..so your comfort zone and level would always be at the mental forefront
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 23, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 23, 2012
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Male, 36-40 years, Dating, VA, US | Apr 23, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, VA, US | Apr 23, 2012
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It would also bother me.
I get jealous and startt a fight
I would not be a big fan of it because I feel like that's how relationships start and I would feel very uncomfortable honestly.
She already does but in this case her friend is more of a motherly figure
It doesn't bother me if I know them or get along with them. If I don't know them or don't get along with them it pisses me off.
It would bother me very much
I don't mind that much
OH Helll nooooooooo! I don't think so, if if they are attracted to each other in that sense, then something could go down!
