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How do you feel about your partner having a best friend of the gender they are attracted to?
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I am okay with it, not comfortable about it but it's okay.
ummm as long as they DO NOT flirt.... tr(us)t
Not an issue right now. Couldn't say exactly how I would feel in that situation, but I do know that I trust my wife to the utmost. If he were my friend as well it would probably be easier than if he wasn't.
I think it would always be a source of suspicion...men & women are just sorta wired to be flirtatious together & I think that's inappropriate when you are married. Especially if there is hiding or not being up front involved.
She's free i trust her
It is fine for the most part. He sometimes tries to use her to bring a different female perspective into our discussions, and that is wrong.
I hate it! My bf cheated on me with his girl best friend, and there still friends and I secretly haw it but I'm not going to tell him!
It would not bother me, I trust her!
I dont like it.. It would always cause problems
She does and I'm ok I'm secure and trusting and I love her
Not worried about it bcz I trust him enough not to cross the line
its normal i think. As long as you both trust each other.
I should be his best friend of the gender his is attracted to.
Used to it.
Not excited about that. I'd like to be his best friend/confidant.
