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What was the topic of the worst fight you have had with your partner?
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honestly i don't remember because it was a fight and i never like fighting with him i'd rather have fun instead....lol
Being faithful and truthful and honest and loyal... To sum it all up TRUST. However those small things collectively causes a huge trust issue when one or a few or all are twisted in any form or fashion. With that being said... There's been many blow outs!!!! πππ¨πͺπ
Our biggest fight will be about the name of children... She won't let me call them Spartacus I'm sure XD
His ex
Cheating/being interested in other people
him admitting that he fell out of love. admitting he wasn't happy and it was over. I'm proud of him though. he did what was best for him and on return, he gave me the opportunity to better myself and find my true love.
When we realized we had a race condition for happiness (me being happy was when she was and vice versa). It meant when something hit hard it brought both of us down and compounded the problem. The argument was about how to change that, we have never in my mind had a "fight".
what do u mean by race condition
Female, <20 years, Dating | Aug 28, 2013
Female, <20 years, Dating | Aug 28, 2013
A race condition is when you have two entities are dependent on a shared "state" which neither has exclusive control.
For us, this meant that each of our levels of happiness was based on the level of happiness of the other. We were both trying to make the other happy even if it wasn't in our individual self interest which would have an unknown effect on the others happiness.
In the end we realized this and both had to find some outlet outside the other person which could bring satisfaction & happiness. For me it was racing for her it was dancing. Once we both had a stable focus outside our relationship that could provide happiness then we could grow together as we were no longer solely dependant on the other for happiness & satisfaction.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Aug 28, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Aug 28, 2013
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Probably yesterday? About her coming here
Manipuleren als t hem niet naar de zin gaat
The last resent fight was on date night, it
Horrible and frightening,long and painful day. Date night is for love and connection not letting out all your shit.
Trust!! Not under standing that comes back in time and in action. Open book is showing you can be trusted.
Horrible and frightening,long and painful day. Date night is for love and connection not letting out all your shit.
Trust!! Not under standing that comes back in time and in action. Open book is showing you can be trusted.
dance
Oye.... hard to choose.... we tend to fight about sensitive subjects but then we get off subject and it tends to get ugly fast. I wish we could not fight to the level we get to but not sure how that will happen.
Cheating, honesty and loyalty.
Family
Er...I'm...I donwannasay!
