Icebreakers
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Are you living the life you thought you would be 5 years ago? How or how not?
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Yes. I have a husband I'm in love with & kids I adore (even when they drive me nuts!).
No. No yard for them to play in.
No. No yard for them to play in.
haha I had no idea what my life planned for me 5 year ago.
No I thought I would be a mom by now
Not at all, major setbacks last year...health and work from that. Feeling like we are starting over but with expectations that are not
Somewhat.. Five years ago all I wanted was to have Stephanie in my life. We hasn't quite hit the shit AND the fan yet with my kids and my mother so my expectations were really high. I would have guessed there would be nothing to slow us down or tear us apart.. We're still together but there is so much added weight with all the crap I come with.. It sucks really bad.
Yes and no. In the sense that our marriage is great and weenie have two kids but not as far as money and career
Totally agree
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 23, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 23, 2013
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Hmm... five years ago I probably still thought I'd be attending a top 50 university, and be at the top of all my classes and didn't really know if i'd be in a relationship. So no, I'm not. But I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing.
No, it's very different. I'm dating the guy I had a crush on in high school- turns out I can't live without him, (had to learn the hard way). I don't have my degree or my own house yet, which is a bummer. But I've got love, and I know for a fact- that's most important possession of all.
No. Never could have dreamed it would be like this. I'm on a constant roller coaster that doesn't ever stop.
I guess so... Which is good bc I was looking forward to it!
No still working on it
Lol no at that time I was with a guy that made me wanna punch in the face most days and I had a baby with him and have up and any decent guys and promised my self I was gonna get close to anyone cause all they did is hurt me then Luis came in and blind sided me lol best thing ever
...5 years ago. Nope.
Hell no. Five years from now, I thought I'd already be dead at this point.
5 years ago I thought I'd be a little better off than I am. The house we"had" to get is eating any savings away bit by bit. I'm already waiting for the next thing that's going to fall off or break.
