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Have you ever paid for sex? Would you be hurt to find out that your partner had?
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No. But she pays for it every morning after!
Ba-dop-bop!
That's right folks, I'm here all all week.
Ba-dop-bop!
That's right folks, I'm here all all week.
hasn't *every* man paid for sex in some form or another over the course of their lives?
Noooooo
Lmao that's nice to know
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 12, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 12, 2013
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You're an idiot if you think the fact that your children is alive means that you're paying some kind of price for sex! The joke's not funny, and it paints you in the worst light possible. Kids are a blessing from God, and you better start acknowledging that fact, unless you want them without a strong identity and a blessed destiny. Shit! If your child died tomorrow would you say you'd win the lottery?
No, but if my girl paid for it, I would try to be understanding. For how much she says I'm "handsome", I acknowledge there are desires and fantasies I would never be able to fulfill. I would certainly be bothered, there's no denying it. On a tangent, I think for her to pay is so much better than her sleeping with a "legitimate" guy. If she paid a male escort, at least I'm guaranteed to know she wasn't emotionally cheating on me, and that has to be the most scarring of all.
Interesting. Of course I've never done this and will never. I view this akin to cheating if you're already in a relationship (though maybe it's not emotional cheating, it's still cheating), so I would not be ok if my partner did this while with me.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jan 11, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jan 11, 2013
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I have,along time ago..and yes I would b hurt 2 find out if she did,lol
no I have never been paid for sex, and I know my husband has never either!!
nope. and yes I would be devasted to find something like that out
Never. I would feel real weird about it.
Male, >50 years, Married, IA, US | Jan 12, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, IA, US | Jan 12, 2013
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We all pay for sex some how. It can be a date or a vacation. I can't really apply that theory to her. Women don't have to pay they just open wide.
No & neither would my boyfriend (:
No I have never, and yeah I'd be devastated
Never. I would feel really weird about it
No and yes.
No and yes
I've paid for sex in the form of 16mo old son. ;)
