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Have you ever paid for sex? Would you be hurt to find out that your partner had?
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nope. hells yes.
Yeah, back in 'Nam. She loved me long time. Hehehe NO! I haven't, that would take the fun out of it for me. If she's not genuinely interested then what's the point?
I wouldn't be hurt to find out you had, just amazed because you're so gorgeous.
I wouldn't be hurt to find out you had, just amazed because you're so gorgeous.
No. No.
no and yes
Depends on how you define paid. Money, nope. Chores...Do'h.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US | Aug 25, 2011
Male, 41-50 years, Married, CA, US | Aug 25, 2011
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No. It would hurt, but doing that kind of thing isn't like him at all.
No, & I'd be a bit concerned.. Haha.
No and... lol
Nope, I've never paid cash for sex. I have paid dearly for love in the past, however, with my self. Pretty costly. As for my partner, I think it might surprise me to find he had, but I don't think it would hurt - unless it had been since we were together.
So, does the question mean "paid" as in handing over cash, or "paid" as in giving up something - possibly something intangible - for the privilege? If the latter, I think a lot more people have "paid" for sex than care to recognize it, especially in the 20-something crowd. Ask me how I know...
no i haven't, and i'll not be hurt, but i know he'll never do it.
no and yes
I have never paid for sex. I would not be hurt if my partner did. We all may not be able. LOL.
Never! I would be incredibly upset (and surprised) if I found out my partner had.
Not money, but man, did I pay in other ways. I'd be upset if my husband paid $ for sex just because it seems so out of his personality that I'd wonder what else I was that wrong about.
No and I'd be hurt and disgusted.
