Icebreakers
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Communicate communicate and then communicate some more. Be 101% honest and don't be afraid to face the fear. If you are strong enough to get through and good enough friends, you'll get through and conquer anything.
Honesty at all costs, no matter how hard it is. Accept it and give it, encourage it, take responsibility, give comfort in it. I feel it is the best foundation to build a long lasting marriage, gives you the freedom to be open of your thoughts, feelings story opinions and emotions. All the other feelings will just grow on it, respect admiration, affection and will never collapse cause they sit on a solid base.
Be open.
A happy wife makes a happy life.
Listen. Think before you speak. Those words can never be taken back.
Be friends first. Sex and looks fade. You still need that foundation.
always say I love you and mean it
Forgive each other freely and laugh a lot!
love people for who they are, do not assume the worst, holding resentment only builds separation.
Encourage their dreams, even if they are not your own.
Always communicate. Tell the other person what is wrong with you and not just have them try to assume or guess... Work on things together.
Don't ever take your spouse for granted. Treat her like you love everyday with her. Also, communicate effectively. Make sure you aren't shutting each other down and talk openly about your needs and wants.
Take time to connect with your spouse. Especially if you have kids. It's very important to have the time together.
What ever you think you are doing for your spouse you are actually doing for yourself, so do everything that you can for your spouse as it will come back to you with a lot of tax-free interest
Communicate.
