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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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Probably more sub, but if I want something I can bring out a dom side
Submissive until I REALLLY want something :P
DOMINANT!!!!!! no no, just kiddding. i dont really know... ???more like equal. he prob would think its him.
I am the dominant one (right, honey?).
Right, baby. Of course you are.
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MA, US | Feb 01, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married, MA, US | Feb 01, 2012
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Early in the relationship I would definitely say I was more dominant as I am a very independent person. Lately, my confident has been lacking and I have become more dependent, maybe because I never had anyone to depend on before in my life but also because of circumstances within the relationship which has caused me to become 'clingy'. I hate it :(
I'd like to say it was pretty equal
It depends on the situation. I used to be the dominant one but now, I think, things have leveled out a bit.
Submissive, I'd like to be more dominant.
Prob both in different situations !!
I don't mind being dominate, but not so much were it seems like I'm dictating. I just like to run a tight ship. But, can have fun too
I might be a little more dominant, but I'm not quite sure.
In the middle
It depends. I am more dominant in a lot of ways, but he is dominant in others
I like to be more submissive to him, although on some things (a few things) I take on a slightly dominant role. But I really like being submissive to him because all day I'm forced to be dominant in my work environment.
Lol. God only knows. We work at this. We have become equally comfortable in both roles but sometimes we will both be one or the other at the same time. We are a 50/50 team!
