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Are you the more dominant or submissive one in the relationship? How do you feel about that?
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Submissive, I am mostly OK with it, because she has my back always. Maybe sometimes my man ego gets bothered by it, but shes amazing.
Submissive, but only because I actually have the ability to dominate and don't want to abuse it.
I never would have imagined this... but submissive. I love when he takes control and hes found the role fits him well.
I wouldn't say I'm submissive, more like I'm less apprehensible. SO I will go with the flow of things as to avoid any problems. But once and while I will take control of the reins.
I am more dominant.
I am the submissive one. It's okay, but I hope he can love me more...
I am both
submissive
More dominant. I don't like to lead, but I will if I have to.
dominat... this is kind of a problem, because I am the girl and then I sometimes get orders and open doors that my boyfriend wanted to do
We both take our turns being dominant.
Probably more dominant. I've tend to decide what to do. But that's cuz he would never decide do I would
Sexually? Dominant (and feel good about it). Other aspects - slightly submissive in most aspects, equal in some (feel bad about it - would prefer it be more equal).
Both, in turns. Day-to-day I tend to instigate more things/control/plan stuff. I feel okay about it but sometimes I wish he would shoulder more responsibility. My partner suffers from depression which can exacerbate his apathy.
Submissive, trying to be more dominant without pushing her away.
