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Holding hands and a little kiss here and there fun and fine to see. Full on porno tongue and groping is gross to see and shouldn't be done in public unless you both look like supermodels or porn stars . . . and you don't so don't do it.
I think showing signs of love and adoration are fine as long as it doesn't get carried away. I love to see people walking Hand in hand or stealing a kiss or hugging but not anything craZy.
They are okay as long as people don't get carried away.
Male, >50 years, Dating, NY, US | May 10, 2014
Male, >50 years, Dating, NY, US | May 10, 2014
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i agree with the no porno tongue and getting all handsy but I think if two people are in love it shouldn't matter what others think. they can have a big long passionate kiss in public and be ok with it.
I hate it. Both ways I'm shy
I agree!!!!!
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jun 12, 2014
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jun 12, 2014
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I think showing signs of love and adoration are fine as long as it doesn't get carried away. I love to see people walking Hand in hand or stealing a kiss or hugging but not anything craZy.
I think some affection is okay. I love when he puts his hand on the small of my back when we are walking or holds my hand. Quick, sneaky pecks can also be fun. Full on makeout or groping... keep it private.
I don't mind PDA. I think so long as it is genuine and appropriate, it is ok. Once it becomes disgusting and messy, it's not ok. Or, in turn, if it makes others overtly uncomfortable
Holding hands and a little kiss here and there fun and fine to see. Full on porno tongue and groping is gross to see and shouldn't be done in public unless you both look like supermodels or porn stars . . . and you don't so don't do it.
I love them but my partner seems to shy away from them sometimes.
I love it. We are that disgusting couple. But i dont mind seeing others doing the same. What gives me the right to judge another couple. Live it up
I am a fan of PDA. There is nothing wrong with holding hands or kissing the one you love and care about. I do believe that you need to be mindful of the people around you so keep it appropriate.
I think it's okay to not care where you are when you want to kiss and love on each other, sometimes it adds to the spark. I don't mean being to sexual, last thing I want is to make her feel trashy or others getting to much of a view. It's just fun to be playful no matter where you are.
I like PDA. I always want to show my lady off. I am proud that she is mine and I like for people to know it.
Holding hands and a little kiss here and there fun and fine to see. Full on porno tongue and groping is gross to see and shouldn't be done in public unless you both look like supermodels or porn stars . . . and you don't so don't do it.
I think it's good to a certain point. Like I was at Disneyland and some people were lime making out like crazy and it was disgusting.
