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Where were you when you first held your partner's hand?
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Walking with him In down town LA
In the city
In her car. she reached out and held my hand. ah bless the thoughts.
The valor
Watching Shakespeare.
The pony bar
Sakurigicho, walking away from tAllene of the malls ;) I kinda knew she wanted me to do something like that ("You'll not be afraid to touch me?" SMS earlier that week!) and so I just went for it.
My house, I think.
in my room at school
Not yet ):
Our first date, he asked me to put my hand in his. He asked me how does it feel? Does it make me feel uncomfortable? He said that you can tell immediately if you should stay or run according to how it feels when you first hold hands. I didn't feel the urge to run, it didn't make me uncomfortable. We are still together after 8 months.
Walking with him.
In his car on the way to the store to grab batteries for the outdoor speaker. My heart was racing so fast, and I really needed him to be the one to reach out. I needed to know I wasn't just me. He was so smooth. Just reached over and scooped my hand into his. I couldn't hide my smile. It was so perfect, and felt so right.
Walking through my hometown of centralia.
In the car on the way to our hotel when I 1st got back from deployment
I remember that night so well!!!
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | May 23, 2012
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