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Have you ever been "friends with benefits" with someone?
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NOOOOOPE. And I'm glad I haven't, and I don't plan to ever. To each their own, but it's most certainly not for me.
No, it'd be too weird for me. Sex changes things.
I tried once
And couldn't follow through
And couldn't follow through
Nope but who could go through with that
no. it doesn't work. someone else and i considered it and just that was torture (nerds. couldn't go through with it.)
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
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Nee zo ben ik niet
Nada
No!
I wont say it never works, i would like to think some people out there are smart enough to manage it somehow. But its really not for me, and i vaugly assume its not for my boyfriend either. we really like loving. being partners. loyal, supporting snug bugs. Its not for us. Though honestly i think we give it an occasional glance, we quickly come to the conclusion it would not work. (i mean 3-ways are awkward anyway right?)
Never got the opportunity to.
Let's just say that I didn't think I was in one but a couple of them treated me as one.
hate that.
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
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No
That's not your style
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
And so, you have?
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Technically no
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
Huh?
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
I don't think technicalities are involved, sounds like a yes to me
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Just thinking of reconnecting past relationships. Not friends with benefits
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
Female, 26-30 years, Married | Apr 29, 2013
Huh? How can such a simple q yield such a confusing answer. Sounds like a yes.
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, PA, US | Apr 29, 2013
To the female. This guy seems closed minded and petty. Just me, but i really think you should move on before more of your life is wasted. Feel free to cuss me out and tell me i dont know nothing
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
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Yes. It worked. Now that I'm older I would never do this because I look at sex differently now.
My wife, in high school.
lawl
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi | Jun 24, 2013
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yeah but I never labeled it like that. In college I hooked up with guys regularly but we were always friends/acquaintences and it wasn't just sex, we became good friends after or were friends beforehand.
sureeeeeeeee
