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He could pick a freaking apartment already! We have to move!!
Help around the house, but he already does that. I guess just keep doing that.
Write with me. That's all I could even ask. It's like the most magical thing I could imagine.
Be completely honest with me about everything, clean the slate, prove to me I can trust him again, be where he says he will be, don't go somewhere that will make us fall backwards even more, be willing to own and do the work on himself, be accepting of the fact that we are where we are because of choices and make the vow to choose wisely and differently going forward. Be willing to do whatever it takes to prove he is the man I thought I fell in love with....
I want all those things. I will do whatever it takes
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Aug 21, 2011
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Aug 21, 2011
God I hope so...I really truly do.
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Aug 21, 2011
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Aug 21, 2011
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Reassure me.
do my work :)
Just keep being my best friend because I really need that now.
I will always be your best friend :)
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, TX, US | Aug 20, 2011
Male, 36-40 years, Dating, TX, US | Aug 20, 2011
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Make me feel like I'm a big part of his life and that he wants to be with me, I haven't felt or seen that in a very long time. I feel i am being treated as the redheaded stepchild this last year and a half if not longer. I just want to be loved.
Keep doing what he's doing- having a good balance of together and separate lives.
Bare with me threw my craziness. Things will only get better.
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Remember that I'm really stressed out too and need love. Sending me little messages from time to time would really help keep my spirits up.
forgive me.
Try to stay focused on the positive. Love me, and let me know that he does.
Re-assure me and than re-assure me. Since we busy moving and I will be hanging a while, I am a little scared of everything surrounding our current circumstances. But I have faith in us and trust we will be fine, I just need to know he thinks so as well.
Spend some precious time with me.
