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What was the hardest time period of your life? What was the happiest?
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The happiest was when I had my kids, and when we met. I was also very happy at other points when I was able to travel and enjoy my friends and life. When there was more innocence, less intensity.
The worst times have been during fights and periods in my life where I felt like a caged animal that was being pissed on. The times my dad has been hurting and fucking up and bring sent back to prison, just watching him dissenigrate, those times have been heartbreaking too.
The worst times have been during fights and periods in my life where I felt like a caged animal that was being pissed on. The times my dad has been hurting and fucking up and bring sent back to prison, just watching him dissenigrate, those times have been heartbreaking too.
Hardest time period was when I had no money, going to school and raising my daughter on my own. Then I met her.. Fell in love and now we have two new very special girls in our lives. The four of us have our ups and downs but I couldn't be happier with the ones I'm with. Another little one on the way very soon too!!
Those.... Are suppose to be those!!!! Lol
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
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Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
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This is really hard
The hardest for me would be a tie between when I was struggling the worst with my OCD, and became depressed. Or when I was getting emancipated.
The best I'm not sure.
Maybe childhood but to be honest I'm not sure i was happy then either.
Probably babyhood when my parents loved me and each other and all I did was eat.
My life is often really awesome. But it's also often really tragic.
The hardest for me would be a tie between when I was struggling the worst with my OCD, and became depressed. Or when I was getting emancipated.
The best I'm not sure.
Maybe childhood but to be honest I'm not sure i was happy then either.
Probably babyhood when my parents loved me and each other and all I did was eat.
My life is often really awesome. But it's also often really tragic.
You just can't ever get a break.
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Apr 29, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Apr 29, 2013
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Creo que fue cuando mi madre y padre sufrieron cancer al mismo tiempo y los años subsecuentes murio mi padre.. sin duda ha sido lo mas duro ever. Todo lo demás is "a walk in the park" :D
Last spring, and last summer. Man that's kinda weird to think about.
Happiest is now, with the love of my life. The hardest was when I got kicked out when I was 15... But everything happens for a reason and happy it turned out so well. :-)
Hardest was probably when I was a teenager dealing with my moms insane protectiveness and neediness. Best was probably my first year dating g and working at McK.
Being honest with him about my feelings during the nbu's.
Female, >50 years, Dating | May 01, 2013
Female, >50 years, Dating | May 01, 2013
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Hardest--nursing school. Working nights, full load of schoolwaork + a ton of clinical. Mom dying in the hospital bac in OH, 3 sisters pregnant, not really fitting in with my classmates, disliked by my teachers, long-distance boyfriend (and a very self-centered immature guy). I've had a lot of happy times. The best? when this 21-yr-old country girl moved to
San Francisco. Full-time job, lots of friends, so much to explore.
San Francisco. Full-time job, lots of friends, so much to explore.
Three years ago, I got lost in my head and it took a long time to straighten myself out. I'm very happy now--especially with my wife-- though it is a settled contentment on most days.
I still remember how giddy I was when we first married. I would run from the parking lot to our apartment door because I was so excited to see her.
I still remember how giddy I was when we first married. I would run from the parking lot to our apartment door because I was so excited to see her.
This actually made me smile, the story about running through the parking lot because you couldn't wait to see her each day, beautiful.
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating | Apr 27, 2013
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Hardest-Having a sick husband coupled with a painful back.
Happiest- Right now! Life is fabulous and I feel like we are getting into our groove :)
Happiest- Right now! Life is fabulous and I feel like we are getting into our groove :)
Heel 2012 & 2013 zijn de vreselijkste momenten van mijn leven!
De gelukkigste: toen je mij een predictor cadeau gaf. Weten dat je met mij een kindje wou was... Een onbeschrijflijk gevoel. En zie wat een prachtdochter we hebben!
De gelukkigste: toen je mij een predictor cadeau gaf. Weten dat je met mij een kindje wou was... Een onbeschrijflijk gevoel. En zie wat een prachtdochter we hebben!
Overcoming Addiction was the hardest.
Certainly now we are living a dream!!!!
Certainly now we are living a dream!!!!
One of them was needles. Happiest-ever since I met my love and our son made it even better. I have been happy for nearly all of my life, great parents, great husband, great son. I am very blessed!
The hardest time in my life was when I was in my sophomore year in high school and I was living in the streets. The best time was my senior year of high school.
The hardest part is right now with my work and stress level, the happiest is when i didn't have any a care in the world.
