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SETTING BOUNDARIES AND TELLING MY PARTNER MY ISSUES INSTEAD OF LETTING THING SLIDE.
Arguing a lot & not putting enough effort into things.
Giving up too easily and not carrying my share of the load.
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Jun 29, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Jun 29, 2013
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Settling despite what my heart said! Being miserable and having to cheat myself
In an attempt to be momentarily happy!
In an attempt to be momentarily happy!
Not speaking my mind and communicating how I feel; or giving the cold shoulder when I felt like I was being unjustly treated.
I tend to take advantage/for granted of those that are closest to me. I don't ever want to forget how beautiful she is and lucky I am to be with her. I need to be vulnerable enough to communicate emotions and not shut down. Maintaining a solid friend group for us-not becoming completely focused on ourselves. Don't stop having fun together!
Apparently I worked too much do I try to spend as much time as possible
Not be taken for a fool, in any way.
No bajar mi componente coqueto. Esta vez estoy dispuesto a bajarlo o vilmente extinguirlo con tal de que todo este bien. Bendito sea dios mi shanguis no es celosa! Yo solo podía estar con una mujer súper segura y eso me deja ser! Gracias gracias graaaaaciaa ;) <3
Not stand up for what I want :)
Lie and cheat
Not to be loves fool. Also to speak my feelings instead of bottle them up until I can't take it, then walk away...
Didn't think it through and I already have avoided that mistake cause I have already thought Things through numerous times
Not get too clingy. Some independence is good.
Standing up for my feelings, communicating how his actions or words hurts me no matter how hard it is for me to do it or what response I think ill get I know atleast I didn't hold it inside. If I'm unhappy do something about it and tell him. Don't put up with disrespect or waste time on someone who isn't compatible and doesn't have to same basic morals. If he can't learn to communicate honestly leave because we'll never be happy it will be a constant war.
Take the lead...
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac, further reinforcing ram-like attributes of leadership, authority, and other forefather-type characteristics.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 15, 2013
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 15, 2013
It's in our sign baby, I love that you have those attributes. I believe that you make me a better man, and I hope and pray that you will continue to let me take the lead in your life.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 15, 2013
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Jun 15, 2013
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