Icebreakers
Find out what's on your partner's mind, share what's on yours, and get insights from other couples. We ask what you might not think to.
Have a suggestion for an Icebreaker?
Submit it here.
Related Icebreakers
What's one of your sexual fantasies?
Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
When you think of your partner, what image first comes to mind?
When was the last time you bit your tongue to keep the peace?
Who makes you laugh more than anyone else in the world?
+ 10
Do nice guys (and gals) really finish last? How so?
Ask your friends
Copy link
Answered by 
Y'know, at least this question includes women and doesn't quite so much come off as more of that "nice guy" bullshit. My answer is a firm no. If you're a "nice guy/girl" and consistently have no luck, maybe there's something else wrong, like your attitude.
Because people want what they can't have. Nice guys/gals aren't highly desirable. One would prefer someone who's already spoken for or a player who's been with everybody
Some have learned their lesson and are more than grateful for what they have and don't wanna have anything else.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US | Sep 27, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, VA, US | Sep 27, 2012
Sign in to add a comment.
I hope not cause I'm the nicest person I know!! :) just saying!! Lol
No idea
help me out : with what?
Finish last?? But my guy never finish last .. And he's nice
I got lucky :3
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Sep 28, 2012
Sign in to add a comment.
Put her in her place. Don't be scared to be the man in the relationship
nI've guys finish last because they let there wan finish first
Yea
Nice guys finish last because they let their girlfriends finish first.
Yes but true!!
Complete nice guys do. They are often manipulable and weak. Few guys though manage to have a stong personality while remaining sweet and nice, which enables them to stand up for themselves, which translates into cofidence and man/sexiness,
No
I don't really get the whole appeal of the "nice folks finish last" slogan. Is finishing last a good thing because what, you put other people before yourself? That's cool to a point, but if someone doesn't go for their own goals and desires in life, if they don't have the self respect enough to do even that, why would someone else find that appealing? Being nice isn't some unheard of virtue, it's an expectation for basic human behavior.
For most of them I would say yes. However, some get lucky. Like me!
