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Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
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I think both are important...that being said, I think people tend to get wayyyy too busy & stop setting special time aside for just being together (date nights, etc) so having a really healthy sex life creates a time to just focus on each other - even if your lives are completely hectic
Great...(passes good a couple years ago) sex .... Keep me right in the bed and we can work the rest out
Both are important. Without a good sex life the marriage is boring. And without splitting chores there wouldnt be enough sexy tinez :)
Neither one is the biggestbpiece to the puzzle
I think if there is still passion enough for good sex, then any other issues can be easily worked through or at least overlooked.
i think being attracted to the person you're with and wanting to be there with that person not wishing you were somewhere else is important..keeping the spark means more to me than the chores
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jan 25, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jan 25, 2012
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Both chores and sex
Responsibility and fun together in equal parts
Responsibility and fun together in equal parts
Both splitting chores makes for more time and energy for sex
Both. Sharing the chores makes both partners appreciate each other and makes it a team effort. A good sex life creates more intimacy and closeness.
I agree, it's all about balance. With that said I need to add that it is impossible watching my husband bend over as he helps with the chores and not want to take him to the back room....😉
Good sex life, what's a elation ship without sex? NOTHING!
I think both but house hold will be my first choi
Sharing chores for sure.
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Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CO, US | Jan 18, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, CO, US | Jan 18, 2012
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Umm.. that's like comparing apples and oranges. I think both are important for their own reason. and I don't mind either. I mind sex a bit less than house chores still , if you can believe that ! :-P
I think that both are dependent on knowing your partner's wants and needs. If you do that well, you've got both covered.
It's a balance but the balance should be broken to having more special time together.
