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Which do you think is more important for a happy relationship, sharing the household chores or a good sex life? Why?
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Good sex life, he would say sharing chores.
They go hand in hand. If the household chores are under control, then there is more freedom for great sexual experiences. When I see that my spouse jumps in and helps in household areas, it's a turn on. When I see that I am the only one that cares and it's a battle to enlist kid/husband help, then I feel anger and not so romantic! But I thing that applies to all areas of life. the more the spouses do for each other, the more kind, loving, serving, selfless, the more they get from each other.
You have to have both. I love sex, but I don't really feel that lovin' feelin' when totally overwhelmed.
Sharing, and communication
Hmmmm... It depends
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a good sex life. we can hire for the chores. funny how that rhymes.
This question is poorly written, sharing household chores or [sharing] a good sex life? If I have to share the activity, then chores, hands down. No pun intended.
Female, >50 years, Dating, WA, US | Oct 17, 2011
Female, >50 years, Dating, WA, US | Oct 17, 2011
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Good sex life first and the chores can come afterwards
good sex life. because if you're having sex, neither of you care about the chores. =D
Sharing household chores makes the household happy which leads to a better sex life.
I read an article that said partners who share household chores tend to have a great sex life. Agreed!
its easier to have a good sex life when you dont have to worry about chores
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Sharing the household chores, because you can't have a good sex life if one of you feels overwhelmed.
