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In the past, have you been dumped more or done the dumping more?
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I've been dumped more
Almost unanimously, done the dumping. A lot of bad memories.
I've never been dumped....always done the dumping because I was low on the patience and high on the standards
Ammm both
I've been dumped once or twice, other than that I normally do the dumping because if low amounts of patience.
Done the dumping
Im not proud of it but i did all the dumping
I have always been the dumpee, not the dumper.
My romantic side never let me believe that any relationship was worth ending, even when it clearly was
My romantic side never let me believe that any relationship was worth ending, even when it clearly was
I think because I wanted a feeling of control I usually did the dumping, or did something to sabotage the relationship so it would end. Good thing you cured me of that!
Female, <20 years, Married, NJ, US | Apr 15, 2012
Female, <20 years, Married, NJ, US | Apr 15, 2012
I would have loved a feeling of control... never had anything even close! Until you that is; when I chose to take you back and love you forever :D
Male, >50 years, Married, NJ, US | Apr 16, 2012
Male, >50 years, Married, NJ, US | Apr 16, 2012
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Little bit of both. But what an ironic question today. This evening my wife left me for another man. I thought I was loved....I was told that I was loved....but apparently I wasn't loved enough to stay. Am I worth nothing? Am I worth more than I thought? I guess I'll never know. Life is full of ups and downs. I am down and this is the end.
Awe I'm sorry to hear that, but just know that life goes on. She may have not been the one that was truly meant for you. I feel down sometimes too and I'm with someone!! So that should say a lot....
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, LA, US | Apr 15, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, LA, US | Apr 15, 2012
U r worth a lot
Female, >50 years, Married, TX, US | Apr 15, 2012
Female, >50 years, Married, TX, US | Apr 15, 2012
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A bit of both I think.
I've been the dumped one.
I've always been the dumper, I think it's because I just push people away, cause I'm afraid of being left. I hate the thought of being alone, so before they leave me, I go.
I think with me it's been about 50:50
I think I do more dumping than others
I've never "dumped" someone rather I have been "dumped", but in each case after they "dumped" me they came back wanting to fix things and in each case I walked away. I'm not a person that takes actions of that nature litely, if they have a problem with they should talk about it prior to acting on it, words can be mended but actions can not.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Apr 15, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Apr 15, 2012