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Over the past 5 years, how do you think you have changed, for better and worse?
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Hmmm for better I'd say I've matured..a little bit.. And have more grown up responsibilities. For worse, I still complain about not having friends and feel I've become an old maid. I'm not as fun as I used to be and I'm tryyying to change that.
I have learned alot in the past 5 years. He really is my soul mate and I never want to be without him again:)
I have a much deeper understanding of me and my needs and where I lack in emotional growth as well as how my ADHD has impacted my relationships. I know longer focus on the things too hard to change but instead love myself for all I am as well as all I am not. I am now trying to bridge that into my expectations of you and our relationship. I have also began to understand the effect the toxic relationships in my life have had and have chosen to let some people go.
I've changed for the better for sure. Left a place where I couldn't be appreciated, to arrive in a new state to start again. I've consciously made the best of that.
I have changed for the worse. I have became more controlling, bossy and bitchy.
For better for sure. Slower process than I would like but hey, its still progress.
I am 2.0! I look better, I am smarter/wiser, and definitely more and less tolerant all at the same time.
5 years is the majority of our marriage and I feel like we've learned a ton about communication and making things work. Mostly for the better :)
I've grown smarter, less selfish, and more giving. I'm also less materialistic, and desire less of what's not a necessity. In general, its better. But also, because of what I've gone through and my lifestyle, I seem to be going worse because of my lack of rest, rest, and eying well.
Don't say I've changed but I've improved and became a better me
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I hope I've learned from my mistakes! I realize how important she is to me and how I can't live without her!
Im no longer the jealous type. I find anyone interested in my man as a compliment in my decision to say "i do".
probably for worse but im working on going back to the way i used to be
As you have pulled back, I've become more needy, I don't like it either
