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At what moment did you know you were in love with your partner?
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It was a couple of weeks ago. On ahriz's balcony, I was sitting there thinking about things.. Then I thought "if he were to leave me right now, to think I'm too bossy, demanding, selfish.. what would I do?" I knew i couldn't live. I knew I didn't want to try. That's when I knew, that I had fallen harder with him than with anyone else.
I think there have been many moments that have reinforced my love for my husband and that this is not a single moment in time kind of thing. The feelings wax and wane and there is doubt during conflict. I had a lot of doubts in the first few years, but have noticed in recent years that we can have conflict without me doubting my love for him (or vice versa).
From the moment I felt that feeling. The one that pains in your chest when you are not around Her. Warms like a fire when she is in your arms. Makes you cold murderous jealousy of even a passer-by that stares that second too long. The feeling when you catch her eyes, that no matter what is happening, everything in the world will be fine, as long as she is with you.
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Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MI, US | Oct 08, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MI, US | Oct 08, 2012
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When I realized I didn't want to be without him
I think I _started_ to know when I started making plans to drive out to Fort Wayne. Thinking back, it was kind of a big step for me to drive all the way out there, and I'm glad that I did. It might have even began back when we went camping when I was amazed at how not bored we were, and how it felt exciting just to camp out with her. It felt different than other times I've though I had feelings for someone, and I think that was where the real groundwork began for me.
I knew he was the one the moment I saw him
The moment I walked into class.
I knew when I started thinking about when I had to leave and couldn't believe I lived my life this long without him 🌹
When she didn't want to fuck other guys
Sounds hokey, but—when I first saw her.
A Christmas party seven years ago..I saw you..you entered my heart and ever since then I knew there was a god because he showed me at that very moment my future..so thank you god for loving me enough to give me her!
The moment he walked into the gym
I knew that I was in love with Sharmaine the moment when everything started connecting. What I mean by that is, I started to become an entirely new person. This girl inspired me to do things no friend could persuade me to do. Those eyes of hers reeled me in. Her fun- loving personality made me want to be influenced. Her love toward me made me want to love even more. It's hard to imagine life without her.
The first time we danced. She had a look in her eye that night that made me wonder if I was going to survive to see the sun rise...
it's hard to choose a certain moment..
I've never stopped loving him but I do know that he makes me feel beautiful and when he looks and me I fall in love everytime.. bc he makes me feel like no matter what's going on in that moment... nothing else matters and we will be okay..
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
I knew I was in love when he picked me up and kissed me last time I got to visit him.. and it makes me happy that he can change my mood and entire day by sending me a picture or a sweet text.. he really makes me the happiest girl in the world! I wish he could feel what I feel for him.... it's seriously overwhelming love....
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
I knew it early on..after spending time with her which I expected to be nothing but awkward, we immediately clicked and things continued from there. We went through a lot to be together and especially to get where we are now, but I knew the night I came over to hang out with her and one of her friends was staying, she slept on the couch cuddled up against me instead of with her friend..she's incredible and always so considerate. I wish I were a bigger person sometimes so I could truly appreciate it.. :/
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Oct 09, 2012
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