She is more responsible, but I'm learning. Neither is technically "responsible" for it though. Not really sharing finances.

"Be responsible for money" is a really loose term... I think recently I have become the more budget-minded thinker, because I'm more dually focused on both spending and saving than she is. When she spends, lately, it seems to be out of impulse of what she needs that day for the wedding. She has been more frugal-minded than a lot of people, but I try to include appropriate spending as well.

I wish it would be me cause I tend to be able to save better. Knowing what I make but not her doesn't help

Me me me!!!

She does

Both, but separating house expenses is a very good idea

Depends, he generally is, my part is to try and get as much as possible, for as little as I can! (ie: SALES)

His money is his an my money is mine if we need something from eachother we just ask

Define 'responsible'

him

Uhhhhm we both are, it's hard not to spend but when there are things yu are working towards saving for it makes it easier to be more responsible.

Me

We are both very responsible with money, and we both control it. Sure, we have some weaknesses when it comes to a few items, but we never spend money we don't have!

He is I buy groceries :)

I allow her to be in charge of the money. :)