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Does your heart tend to rule your head, or the other way around?
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I think I let my heart lead most of the time. Sometimes my head tells me stuff but I sometimes ignore it.
Probably a 50-50 mix, depending on what it's related to.
I want to let my heart rule, but my stubborn head is always getting in the way. Then they fight.
Heart rules with head as key advisor.
Generally I like to let my heart rule, but if I wait to do something for too long my head takes over and then there are issues.
Definitely let my heart make a lot of decisions for me. A decision without emotion feels like math.
Head rules all!
Head almost always. But I give a lot of weight to heart in my head- based calculations.
depends on the situation. When people suffer, or need something, I am known to be helpful to a fault (heart). In other situations, like work, I'm mostly rational, I think (head).
My head tends to rule my heart...I'm typically a cautious guy.
I am the exact opposite.
Female, >50 years, Married, OH, US | Aug 18, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, OH, US | Aug 18, 2011
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I say it is a mix for me. I try to let me heart rule but my head canbe stubborn about it.
this is tough to say, actually. i think i use both, but since i go with intuition a lot, i suppose i could say that i use heart more than head. i'd be curious to hear what you think i use.
I let my head rule my heart, this confirms me I do the right thing :)
My head often rules my heart... and this isn't always a good thing. I need to learn to go with what I *feel* without over thinking things.
My head - with my heart guiding paths. If it was my head alone i wouldn't have her - if it was my heart alone i would have lost her.
