Icebreakers
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Is it healthy to keep secrets from your partner?
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Absolutely not healthy
No not at all
No it is not.
No
No. Secrets are not healthy
ONLY IF THE SECRET DOES NOT AFFECT THE FUTURE OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND IF THE SECRET HARMS MY PARTNERS EMOTIONAL/NERVOUS HEALTH. I BELIEVE INTENT AND UNDERSTANDING OF DECISIONS IN TIME AS IN WE ARE TOGETHER WE GOT TOGETHER I HAVENT THOUGHT ABOUT IT SINCE I SAID YES TO FOREVER. THERE IS NO OPTION TO END THIS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IT IS NOT IT ISNT
Minor ones are ok—not things that could harm the relationship
No it is not healthy
No! Trust is very important.
Secrets that hurt, no. Surprises, yes.
No, should have no secrets
Some things are personal and private in nature and do not have to be volunteered for information; however, purposefully withholding information is not healthy for a relationship. Whenever confronted about something, always be honest and forthwith.
Yeah
Sometimes?
Absoutley not
