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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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1 Geography : living closer to each other
2 Get a good/better job and complete studies
3 Keep learning about each other culture and life
2 Get a good/better job and complete studies
3 Keep learning about each other culture and life
If we could both get super serious about or health and if we can get him into a job he loves sooner rather than later. Being healthy means I get to have him for a long long looonnnnggg time! Money issues harm everyone, it would mean more expendable income to do weekend trips. The type that reignite a relationship!
1. distance
2. angryness (both)
2. angryness (both)
open communication, honesty, trust
me getting a job in my field, me moving out my grandmas house and her feeling like i'm able to support her
Communication, Affection, Support
We need to stop making how much we do a competition.
I wish you wouldn't misunderstand me as being unaffectionate when I'm really just distracted or I. A weird mood.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
We need to stop making how much we do a competition.
I wish you wouldn't misunderstand me as being unaffectionate when I'm really just distracted or I. A weird mood.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
We need to stop making how much we do a competition.
I wish you wouldn't misunderstand me as being unaffectionate when I'm really just distracted or I. A weird mood.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
We need to stop making how much we do a competition.
I wish you wouldn't misunderstand me as being unaffectionate when I'm really just distracted or I. A weird mood.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
We need to stop making how much we do a competition.
I wish you wouldn't misunderstand me as being unaffectionate when I'm really just distracted or I. A weird mood.
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, LA, US | Aug 17, 2011
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reduced career competition, more intimacy, greater intimate variation/experimentation. Oh, did I mention intimacy, ehem. Oh, I see that I did. ;)
An increase in our finances, court issues, and getting our own place
1. no more fighting
2. him not playing devil's advocate always
3. more space for me
I need more time alone.
2. him not playing devil's advocate always
3. more space for me
I need more time alone.
If negativity and judgments were easily removed from this life. If we had more money and less stress maybe. And in my life, definitely if I had more money or less scars and baggage from my past.
her mom to accept us being engaged, me getting a better paying job
Trust, Balance and communication.
all the kids went down at a decent time so we could get some quiet alone time
Get rid of my constant anxiety, being able to settle down, and satisfy my family's need.
Trust. If we could just really trust each other 100%. We would be great... No we would be fantastic... I just know it. Also if our careers were going better. If I had a more fixed job and earned a lot more, I think it will take so much weight of stuff..
