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What two or three problems, if solved, would make the most positive difference in your relationship? In your life?
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we don't really have any problems in our relationship... if you're talking life problems than being able to buy a house and pay off the massive irs debt we have would make a significant different in our life...
Our sex life. The romance in our life. My job. My worries concerning my mom.
no worry about what we can't change
water tank
Him seeing more positive...he is a beautiful soul.
Female, >50 years, Dating, MA, US | Mar 09, 2014
Female, >50 years, Dating, MA, US | Mar 09, 2014
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If I had a better job, we had our own place, and we weren't worried about money problems.
His parenting, communication and more time to do what I want without feeling guilty
My parenting can use some help too
Female, >50 years, Married | Apr 26, 2014
Female, >50 years, Married | Apr 26, 2014
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If my bf stops lying to me and stay truthful to me.. Because cheating doesn't only mean that u have someone else but as long as u are deleting msgs, what's app msgs, call logs and turning off ur location settings and hiding things from ur partner is also called cheating and such a relationship nvr lasts. I guess this is the only prob.
If we stop spending way above our means each month we can have a lakefront home to run to every weekend to escape!!!!!!
My parenting. Being more assertive. And communicating more
Bingo we have a winner
Female, >50 years, Married | Apr 26, 2014
Female, >50 years, Married | Apr 26, 2014
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My anger & self-control. & my wife's lack of affection.
Easier communication and understanding other party's needs.
Negative attitude, selfishness, patience
Retirement, kids done with school, and more time to spend with my honey!
That is my list exactly!
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 26, 2014
Female, >50 years, Married | Mar 26, 2014
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The first two we know about. It's issues with #1 and #3. That would make our lives more joyful. The other one I would say is him making a career change.
Geography....residing in the same city
Time....we wasted a lot of years
Health....I need to pay more attention so I can live as long as he thinks he will
Time....we wasted a lot of years
Health....I need to pay more attention so I can live as long as he thinks he will
