I'd say that she is closer to our family (Her, our Son, and I) than to the rest of her family.

Honestly I wish it was me, but it's definitely his family. That's ok though because we are just dating. If/when we get married that will have to change. I've dealt with being below the family before. Not happening again!

His family

I think he's closer to me but not at the expense of his family. I also think he and I think more alike than he and his family.

I don't know... definitely her family. One day I want to be her family.

He's definitely closer to me. He shares a lot more with me, but in our culture, a lot of things are simply kept from our parents so they perceive their children to be ideal and that contributes to our closeness. I'm really glad that he's comfortable enough to share everything with me since he's so reserved. :)

I'd say me bc we live together but there are times when he tells his grandmother more than he tells me

We're definitely closer to each other. We've had issues with both our families, and therefore there's more distance between us and them.

To me I know things about him nobody does.

Idk that's a ruff question. I think family always comes first until you both agree on the decision of marriage. This is very important to separate at marriage because it is proven to break apart marriages.

His family he has never visited my hometown, and has seen my parents 5 times in 10 years, and Im the selfish one, what about that...,

Closer to me

to me...with her brother right behind!

His family but they've known him longer and they are all very close. I don't see it as a bad thing, we're still very close and I don't see it as a competition we both get what we want from each other x

Although I feel close to him like we have a special bond; ultimately I'd say his family.