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How do you feel when your partner chooses time with their friends over you?
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Eeeh well it depends I don't mind her if she goes with her friends bc I know she needs it but then I'd feel left out :( like she dosent have fun with me so she prefers her friends
IT HURTS BECAUSE ITS LIKE SAYIN HE WOULD RATHER BE WITH HIS FRIENDS OVER ME AND HIS SON!
She never really chooses time with her friends OVER time with me. She has time for herself and decide to spend it with her friends, I am absolutely fine with it. On top of that, when she comes back from a night out with friends she is generally happy, and I am happy too.
it really hurts glad he doesn't anymore
Depends. I like her hanging out with friends but like if it's when I just came home then that kinda bothers me
I don't like it but I understand now that he is a guy n he do need a little not a lot but a little space
Wouldn't really mind~ I need some time with my girls as well~
Yea that's true I'm going through that what should I do in that situation?
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, IL, US | Apr 04, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, IL, US | Apr 04, 2012
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I feel like I am not getting my full share of her time sometimes ok but not too often
I'm always with you I don't hang out with friends always home
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Apr 05, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Apr 05, 2012
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I dont mind because i know when he comes home he enjoyed his time with thembut he know what fun hes gonna have with me after i guarantee they cant give him what i can
If that happened I would not accept it. He can have all the time he needs with his friends as long as we both are ok with it. Vise versa!!! If someone chooses there friends OVER u it's not right. There shouldn't be a choice cause u should always come first.
Were this to happen, I would hate it. We both have had times where we prioritized work or outside obligations, of course, but my wife has never chosen her friends over us. Ever.
It doesn't bother me too much now. He has very little time left to hang out with them before heading to college so I understand. We still have our time too(:
Gosh, it's never an issue. He needs time with his friends as well. He never actually chooses them OVER me. It's his boy time and I accept that.
He needs his space I can't always take up every second of his life
That doesn't really happen. But it would be ok as long as he doesn't want to skip something with me that I feel is important.
