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What is the hardest event that you have endured with your partner?
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Deciding whether or not to abort our second child. Ultrasound indicated some signs of Downs Syndrome. We didn't he wasn't and we are so glad.
being 8000 miles apart for most of the year...
yup, sometimes it's so hard. but knowing that once we ride out this year, everything will be much better keeps me going.
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jul 05, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Jul 05, 2013
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So far, I believe his being laid off has been the hardest.... taking its toll on us for sure.
Abuse
Our last argument was a real doozy.
So far it's when we broke up because he was lying about hanging out with a girl but we were strong enough to work thur it
long fucking distance!!!
The "event" would have to be this first year of marriage. We're going through growing pains right now.
birth of billy
splitting up after 10yrs.
We both know the answer to this. it was very difficult at first and is still something that we're dealing with, but I think it has actually made us stronger than we ever were before. I'm not saying that I would go through it again, but it made both of us realize how much we love eachother and not to take eachother for granted.
probably employment issues on both sides. my being unemployed and her being under employed... but it taught us how to live on less w/o fighting and when i was unemployed she totally picked up the slack which gave me a whole new appreciation for her...
Almost leaving eachother. But we both held on strong and didnt end up without eachother.
Quitting drinking.
