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Never go to bed angry. Agree or disagree with this advice?
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just not practical, cant argue late into the night every night. I end up agreeing just to get some sleep!
amendment: we can sleep if there is an argument, we shouldn't sleep if there is anger. different things
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Mar 04, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Married | Mar 04, 2014
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agree. this is hard to do when so far away because the other may not know how the other is feeling and this is why it is important to communicate our feelings to each other, clearly.
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Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Mar 04, 2014
Male, 31-35 years, Dating | Mar 04, 2014
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Agree you should never go to bed angry. You can go to bed with the issue unresolved.
We can agree to resolve the emotion, " I felt hurt when when you said___, "
"Even though we haven't agreed what to do about____, I didn't mean to hut your feelings, I'm sorry."
"Can we talk about it in the morning/ or after work tomorrow when we are both fresh?" ( I know that's ideal world) BUT It's the emotions around the issue that ended up causing fights- not that we disagreed.
We can agree to resolve the emotion, " I felt hurt when when you said___, "
"Even though we haven't agreed what to do about____, I didn't mean to hut your feelings, I'm sorry."
"Can we talk about it in the morning/ or after work tomorrow when we are both fresh?" ( I know that's ideal world) BUT It's the emotions around the issue that ended up causing fights- not that we disagreed.
For the most part I agree, but sometimes it's ok to take the night to simmer down:). Although I can't sleep if we go to bed mad
I prefer to not to go to bed angry but too often it happens.
I think so, but sometimes its hard to resolve differences until you sleep on it.
Agree but sometimes it is hard not to
Agree!!!
Who would disagree?
Agree very much but we allowed it to happen not tiling ago so we may need to work on it some
This was definitely hard for me and probably still hard for me, as much as I think it is not a good idea to go to bed angry and as much as I'd like to stay up and talk everything out, I realize late at night when both parties are tired and upset is NOT the time to do so!
I think it is tough for you to do that, but I think things seem to work out better when we aren't tired and as emotional about the situation. I do recognize that u don't get good sleep those nights, which is why I recommend zquill for those events?!? Hopefully those r not going to be that regular for us!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Mar 03, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Mar 03, 2014
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Agreed. Sometimes the anger keeps me from sleeping, so very bad. I think both partners have to share the same opinion and work on things to find a compromise before sleep time.