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Betrayal
Distance! I hate long distance, I hate that he's deploying but it's OURS to take ownership of and we make it the best we can.
Mine too!!!! :(
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged, OH, US | Feb 13, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Engaged, OH, US | Feb 13, 2013
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Somehow I wish we could ban negativity. I'm not sure how to do that without asking both of us to put on naive rose-colored glasses. And I'm certainly the guilty party on this front. But it is something I wish we could change.
Closed mindedness.
Confiding in others, not your husband
This stupid distance thing! Him being in the Army and me in college. Just sucks! I also want to ban hiding our feelings, because we tend to argue alot! And its cuz we hide our feelings about things and dont get to talk much.
I agree with him. Secrets.
Secrets.
Can't really ban anything every mistake and hiccup is what helps us grow day by day.
Secrets.... keeping ANYTHING from the other.
nothing.
Wish i could ban fighting and replace it with more communication.
Uncertainity
Distance
Distance.
