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What is something that you'd like your partner to change, but that you haven't had the nerve to tell them?
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I tell him what's on my mind so there isn't anything I haven't told him
To quit being so damn hot and bothersome...I can barely get anything done cause I'm always thinking about him!
I already told him anyway. I want him to start doing what's needed to be done a long time ago. I keep on telling him to start finding a job in the place I'm currently working at so we could be together. He said he would after our wedding. But it has been 2 months already, it's getting taxing. I hope he realize soon that I can't do everything for us anymore. I couldn't be as crazy as I used to be, jumping on an airplane whenever I feel like to just so I could be with him.
I think to be less OCD and more curious and open minded/flexible about things.
Nothing. I have the nerve to say something... but the only the I'd change about him right now is that he isn't in my bed & I think he should be 😘
Hehe, I think I should be as well.😘
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, BC, CA | Feb 23, 2013
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, BC, CA | Feb 23, 2013
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Nothing really.. I think he is perfect as he is right now. You can't really say that you want to change people around you. Instead of asking for a change, why don't we take the initiative to adapt? If it's still tolerable, adaption is the best key.
nothing cause i love him the way he is today
It's not something that I haven't had the nerves to say but it's something that I don't think will change because I'm so unsure where we really stand right now. Sometimes I really miss how he used to be towards me. He used to tease me like crazy, and we'll laugh and have a lot of fun talking over the phone. I got to see him a lot more and even though he isn't really the romantic type, he tried sometimes and that meant a lot to me. He really made me feel loved.
Wow. Verbatim I am where u are... ;/
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 23, 2013
Male, 41-50 years, Dating | Feb 23, 2013
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Hmmm. Well, there's not a lot
I'd want her to change. I pretty much tell her anything right away. I guess I'd say I'd want her to actually try to understand how busy I am at school, and that I sincerely try my hardest. I think she knows this already though.
I'd want her to change. I pretty much tell her anything right away. I guess I'd say I'd want her to actually try to understand how busy I am at school, and that I sincerely try my hardest. I think she knows this already though.
Be more romantic to me. He tries everyday but my heart has yet to feel the beat again.
To stay true to his word.
Not going there
She changes bye the day... She is truly the best!!
Yep!!
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Feb 27, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Feb 27, 2012
Remember you said this!!!!!
Female, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Feb 19, 2013
Female, 41-50 years, Married, NC, US | Feb 19, 2013
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I've told her everything I would like her to change so we can do it together.
He needs a haircut (: but personality wise-nothing. He is my perfect other half, but i do wish he would be more considerate like i know he can be
Male, >50 years, Dating | Jan 23, 2013
Male, >50 years, Dating | Jan 23, 2013