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She normally gives the final word but the pondering and decisions are made as a couple. I have a tendency to hesitate in certain situations.
Me. My boyfriend is very indecisive. Although I think the big decisions we should make together.
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Male, 31-35 years, Dating, MO, US | Jul 25, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, MO, US | Jul 25, 2012
Sorry? :/
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, FL, US | Jul 25, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, FL, US | Jul 25, 2012
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If we didn't make decisions together what would be the point of unity
Obviously I'm the man so I can make all decisions without first consulting my partner.... I mean that's what I would do if she it's okay. Im going to go make Her dinner and see if she wants her feet rubbed :)
I try to involve him BUT he usually leaves it up 2 me...
I tend to make more decisions, but its not do to me not asking before. Matts just indecisive. When it comes to big things we discuss it. I have to be patient if I want a response, but when it comes to big things I have to be as fair as I can.
Me, I can hardly get him to decide where to eat when we go out. It's always "I don't care, up to you" Sometimes it would be nice to have him take charge and say this is what we are doing and this is where we are going. It would actually be a big turn on for me. Don't get me wrong though, it's great having a laid back guy, but every now and then a little decision making would be nice.
Prob. Him
I'm not good at decisions. At alll. Even stupid ones. Like what to talk about
I'm not good at decisions. At alll. Even stupid ones. Like what to talk about
Very tricky!
I would say, she is rresponsible for the most big descitions. On one hand, she has the ideas, she needs the big changes ( find new travel destinations, seekung new houses) and on the other hand i am very lucky with most ideas.
But! In some cases, she would say i use her as a stearing object.
I would say, she is rresponsible for the most big descitions. On one hand, she has the ideas, she needs the big changes ( find new travel destinations, seekung new houses) and on the other hand i am very lucky with most ideas.
But! In some cases, she would say i use her as a stearing object.
We should make them together. Consider the other's side
Me!
I don't think so.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Jul 24, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Jul 24, 2012
U out ur damn mind!
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Jul 24, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Jul 24, 2012
I'm serious
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Jul 24, 2012
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, FL, US | Jul 24, 2012
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Both because we have a plan :)
We work on them together, but I have complete faith in him that he would make the right decision for us if I wasn't able to.
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She will. I am undecisive
