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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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We make decisions together if it involves the both of us!
I think it's shifted back and forth over our relationship. It also depends on the topic to decide on.
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My boyfriend, he's a dictator in the relationship :p
I am, but it'd involve a lot of discussion first and would require both of us to agree.
We compromise. If I cant make a decision, he does; vice versa.
She is. I'd rather just follow her than have the weight of making the wrong choice.
We discuss things together and then make the decision after we have come to a consensus.
Back and forth... Big choices.....? I do mostly... But not w/o approval.
For a long time I would have answer this question with me however lately I have tried to make decisions for us and he won't have a bar of it...guess its your turn to be selfish. Maybe one day we will figure this whole 'mutual decision' thing out!
ha! What a great question. Well, it used to always be me...but as I'm working on my control issues, I am letting go of a lot of things and letting him take the lead. So, let's see...we just spent a grand on a computer and I let him go do it himself. He did great too :)
He is...
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I believe big decisions should be made together.
I also think big decisions should be made together, or at least take turns on who wins. Its all about compromise, and you both have to be willing to give to get.
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 25, 2012
Male, 41-50 years, Dating, FL, US | Jan 25, 2012
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It is always a joint decision on major decisions. We always ask the other what they think...it works out great for us.
