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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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Both.. we always collaborate before making major decisions.
I'd like to think they are all collaborative decisions but I feel like I end up proposing that the decisions must be made.
The really big decisions probably fall on my shoulders but the medium and smaller decisions are Jenny's. Nothing big gets decided unless it is talked about. Even if it is Jenny's idea, a really big decision will be discussed.
Any big decisions that we have made have been done together...we are very considerate over each others opinions :)
I have a hard time even contemplating that it would just be one of us ever.
After conversations I feel that I have the final say. For good or ill, I lead the family.
Scott for final but we talk about them first
He is. We do talk about it n takes my opinion into consideration but he is alot older than I am do he's a little wiser n knows more about certain things.
I am!!!! It's frustrating sometimes but it's always me!
Both of us.
So far, it's been a work of both together.
Both of us. Neither of us make decisions without discussing them together.
I agree. We have always made decisions together.
Male, 36-40 years, Married, RI, US | Jan 10, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Married, RI, US | Jan 10, 2012
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Me. Me. Me.
I have learned that we should discuss small and big decisions . Usually he says what ever I decide unless it's really out there and in possible .
We both do mostly
