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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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Not me. Change my mind too often.
Jointly but I tend to have my way if it's important.
Equal I think. Wow it's nice to finally think and feel like equals
We make them together as we have always done for 22 years. We make our best decisions together - in fact, our only bad decisions were ones we made separately.
Yup. We make all of our big decisions together. I'm curious, though. Have I ever made a decision without you that you thought of as big decision?
Male, >50 years, Married, TX, US | Feb 07, 2014
Male, >50 years, Married, TX, US | Feb 07, 2014
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We will together!
I don't know...but usually I am readily making big decisions.
Me of course lol I have to decide what I'm eating in order for you to know 😉
We haven't made any big decisions (that affect the relationship) without consulting the other first. It's definitely a two-way street, I'd feel wrong making a huge decision without his input, and I know he feels the same.
I think we pretty much share those things, although we have yet to make any really important decisions.
We usually do this together
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Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi | Feb 17, 2014
Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi | Feb 17, 2014
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Lol Matty? But uh he has to get my approval 😉
Nick, which is ok as long as he takes my opinion into consideration. I'm better at small decisions, like what to have for dinner :P
Gonna say me, cause I'm a control freak but really Idk
Usually we share it
We communicate and decide on things together
