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How often do you and your partner 'do nothing together'?
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We have a few times a week where we do nothing. My favorite bar far is our fireside chats. Sitting together with a warm fire, good wine and wonderful conversation makes those "do nothing" moments feel like everything is right.
Not often enough...there is always something to do.
Our time together is limited so usually i find myself stressig out tryin to think of things for us to do together so every minute is planned and we enjoy it.. He is the opposite. A recent memoryi have of us not really doig anything was amazing, because it didntfeel as though we were rushing or counting down the minutes till he had to leave. It was so relaxed and calm, we sat on a little couch wearing barely nothing and ate food and watched a stupid american dating show :p i enjoyed tht alot..
When we sleep
We're pretty good at doing nothing. In fact, we really like going to a classy little local bar and sitting with a drink for an hour or more. We also have a scheduled "Couch Date" once a week. It is usually a nothing date after the kids go to bed. Two glasses of wine or hot tea, a few slices of cheese, and some conversation. At most, we'll watch something on TV together, but really, I prefer conversation.
All the time.
Every day. It's what we spend most of our time doing together, as long as you're okay sitting around together it's fine. Some couples don't even have to talk to each other, because you know what their thinking from the look on their face.
Well we used too, but not anymore.
We try to do nothing but enjoy each others company at least once a week and just lay on the bed or couch and watch TV and talk about life
Idk, whats "do nothing"? Does that mean "not go out"? Cos if we're in our nest together thats not "doing nothing". Thats "being together". So idk.
Both work, new parents, another on the way.....never
Quite often, but I'm okay with it. I enjoy being around her, nothing with her is better than something with anyone else. Usually when she does get a chance to do "something," I'm not invited.
everytime
Once in a blue moon
if u call cuddling nothing. ur whack. i loveee to cuddle w. my bbeeee
