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What's the most recent thing you held your tongue about in your relationship?
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That's the problem sometimes, I don't hold my tongue.
Her groaning and hanging up on me in the middle of the night
The hurt
Mostly just how much pain I'm feeling day to day.
I bake better cupcakes than she does
I'm not very good at that in general and it gets me into trouble sometimes. I don't think that I have held my tongue at all. I'm gonna say what I feel and want and if he had a problem with something we would figure it out at that time.
I can't recall anything specifically, but I know I have at least a handful of times
When he was back again to being monstrously angry... coz I know at that point not only would he just trust his own thoughts but I am already an enemy to him, and for every word I utter will only heighten his anger.
I do tend to bite my tongue but nothing recent , maybe I'm getting better at not holding it in
I dont hold my tongue, I just wait for the right time.
It hurts to bite your tongue so I try not to but when I do it always cums out later and 10 times worst
Money
How much in pain I am.
I'm Portuguese....we cannot hold our tongues about anything. :) Him and I always speak our minds and never hide thoughts from each other.
His family. And my family. Bleh. We ignore these things about each other. And our differing opinions bout how to cook.
