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What's the most recent thing you held your tongue about in your relationship?
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Locally communication is key so nothing, but I had to voice that I'm butthurt about the crazy
I dont hold my tongue often. I try not to go nuts on him too often about his recent transgressions all though im sure he thinks i do. I get upset about it more than he will ever know.
Nothing
Lots
I haven't held my tongue for anything and I don't feel like I'll ever have the need too either. If anything ever bothers me I'll ask about it.
I never hold my tongue
I dont have a poker face, if something troubles me I'd rather ask for help with it.
I try not to hold a lot in anymore because that caused problems in the past with us, but I held my tongue about how much I wanted him to live with me, and start a new chapter of our lives together.
not much of a tongue holder at all. probably something like 'okay mister attention freak'
Don't really hold my tongue about anything
To avoid minor arguments.
My desire for foreplay
The Endlessness of this answer creates a black hole of ever punishing and unsaid truths.
That the 'Why?' business was the most I've ever had to hold myself back and I LOVE HER FOR IT!
I don't hold a lot in. But when I do hold it in, I just keep getting hurt. whatever I do or say he just yells at me. And then the situation just gets worse.
