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What do you do when you want to relax? How can you best help your partner to relax?
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I can cuddle with her. She likes to be held and not stressed. Just rubbed and cuddled with. That seems to relax her. I really don't know what relaxes me..... but sex puts me in a more pleasant mood/ or makes me forget what was bothering me.
Play ps3 while BJ :D
Play Xbox with her and kiss her <3
I lay down next to my partner it's the most relaxed I am the whole day. I try to help her relax when she gets home from work by having dinner ready and tea for her
Play Xbox or talk
Rain and music are relaxing for me. I wish I could have her here with me to better relax her.
Kiss him, kiss him :)
I read when I'm relaxing. He seems like he relaxes best when I leave him alone.
I am relaxed when I am just laying in his arms and him kissing my forehead and playing with my hair. I love being held tight in his arms. I could be there all day and fall asleep.
I read and I give her a back massage to help her relax
With us... Especially if we have had a bad week.. Some sexy fun time then really close cuddles seem to do the trick for us. Last time we cuddled after sexy time, we feel asleep immediately and slept hard for a few hours. It was amazing.
I just chill with her sometimes with little talking, it relaxes me just knowing she is there. How I can help her relax is to have a casual conversation about anything other than dealing with the relationship. we both seem to be most relaxed with each other when we actually get the chance to fall asleep with each other. I also know she sometimes needs time away from me to be able to relax which kind of hurts, but I know I did it to myself. I hope to make that better.
I just lay on the couch with my honey
Naps or bubble bath and him let him mess with his truck ( he's obsessed)
Listen to music for her it's listening to music I'd turn one of her fav songs on
